I’m really struggling to orgasm during sex. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years and he’s never made me cum. I can orgasm when i’m alone, so I try to do those things during sex, like rubbing my clit and using a vibrator, but It just doesn’t work unless i’m alone, I cant even feel anything. I don’t know what to do

You need to relax a bit more. I struggle to o when I’m really stressed out or have something on my mind

Do you subconsciously get nervous when you’re with him? Just try to relax and breathe deeply. I used to have issues too because I would get nervous and get in my head and I couldn’t relax! But I learned to tell myself that I’m having fun and have nothing to be nervous about.