Does orgasming while having sex feel different to when you masturbate? When I masturbate I get these really strong shaking orgasms but I’ve never experienced that with a partner. I’m not sure if I’ve orgasmed with a partner but the sex feels really good and I feel myself close to cumming but not sure how it’s meant to feel in comparison for orgasm

Most women cannot orgasm from sex alone. Are you incorporating clit play? You could also show him how you do it.

Yes it can feel different because when you masturbate you can be really focused on yourself and you know exactly how to do it so it's more intense. It doesn't sound like you have actually orgasmed with a partner.

Yes I’ve had this problem my entire life, it’s taken a lot of conversations, time, energy and mostly sex toys to achieve orgasms from ‘normal sex’. If you’re in a relationship with someone you need to talk to them and tell them this and discuss using toys especially for your clit, that’s the only way I can actually finish with a person

Also do they go down on you? I also can come a lot faster if my boyfriend starts off with that first