i need some help :/ basically i like to wear tight clothing and nice pants and stuff but i don’t like wearing shirts that reveal my shoulders and my upper arms :/ i’m not too sure why but i have a feeling it’s because of my acne in those areas and my back included. i would love to wear nice tops with my shoulders and back out but i can’t overcome that insecurity :// also is it normal for a girl to not really like wearing skirts? am i the only one?

No you’re not the only girl that doesn’t like wearing skirts (or dresses). I know plenty of people that prefer to wear jeans.

As for your insecurities; it’s a long and often rough journey but what might help is reading up about self love!

If it helps I can assure you that no one is analyzing what your back and shoulders look like, that would be weird. We are much harsher and more critical of ourselves than other people are! Of course it's normal for a girl to not like wearing skirts, gender isn't inherently linked to clothing. Many men like wearing skirts, many women don't and only want to wear pants.

we tend to overanalyze ourselves and how we look but the truth is no one else is going to be studying how you look nearly as much as you do. strangers will at most give you a glance. think of all the random passerbys you see in a day, how much can you really remember about them? and it’s very normal for girls to not like skirts. me personally my dislike for them came from my mom telling me i should wear dresses and skirts bc i’m a girl and from me being scared of ppl looking up my skirt. don’t feel pressured to wear a skirt bc “girls are supposed to wear skirts.” dress how you want and wear what makes you feel good.