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Aug 16 19
21:01
Help!!! My boyfriend has just told me he wants to try anal at some point but I’m really worried as I don’t know how to prepare or what to expect! Does anyone have any advice?
 
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Aug 16 19
21:06
I like anal. Use ALOT of lube! Like a lot a lot a lot!! Tell him to ENTER SLOW!! like super slow. It’s not painful at all after he’s in, and penetrating.
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Aug 16 19
21:07
Do you actually want to try it? You don't have to if you don't want to.
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Aug 16 19
21:09
Ok I definitely won’t forget the lube then thank you
 
Aug 16 19
21:10
@VibeWlove I mean I’m up for trying anything but it’s just I’m worried about it not being clean
 
Aug 16 19
21:13
This {PcYcBixI1} is brilliant.
 
Aug 16 19
21:13
@Char19 I actually “clean” a few hours before....I use a enema. But that’s me personally and you definitely don’t have too. I do and I’m comfortable with it, and it’s just sporadically. So...that’s what I do.
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Aug 16 19
21:14
If you’re gonna try anal you have to expect that it may get a lil messy. If you can’t deal with that then tbh you shouldn’t do it.
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Aug 16 19
21:17
^^ this is true. We lay a towel down, just in case. I’ve done it before and there has been no “mess” and other times there was a little “mess” I wouldn’t worry to much about the “mess” ....it’s normal. 😊
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Aug 16 19
21:17
@bluerose9 amazing thank you
 
Aug 16 19
21:18
@VibeWlove @bluerose9 this is great advice thank you so much
 
Aug 16 19
21:22
Absolutely tell him to go as slow as he can, it hurts a lot for my bed to try and rush into things, no matter how much lube, bc my body is not used to his width, but anal can be one of the best things a very very intense pleasure, he just needs to know to go very slow for the first many thrusts. Also condom is recommended not for birth protection, but for disease, because fecal matter will always be there no matter if you can see it or not❤️ hope this helped❤️
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Aug 16 19
21:22
Excuse me sorry, my boyfriend*** not bed
 
Aug 16 19
21:26
@Coconut_suga that’s helped so much I’ll make sure he uses a condom thank you❤️
 
Aug 16 19
21:31
@bluerose9 oh wow i had never seen that post! I love @princesspeac where did she gooo! 😭😭😭 and i never knew that you can orgasm through anal without clitoral stimulation!!
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Aug 16 19
21:48
It might be a good idea to have your boyfriend start by fingering your anus or using toys on the area a few times first, you probably shouldn’t just jump right into anal sex. If you’re not used to anything being in there, anal sex will most likely be uncomfortable for you.
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Aug 16 19
21:57
@Moonbunny ok so maybe something like anal beads?
 
Aug 16 19
22:14
Yes that may work for you guys! Basically the idea is to introduce anal stimulation with smaller things first so you can become familiar with how it feels. That way when you feel ready to have actual anal sex his penis won’t be as much as a shock lol. Definitely use a ton of lube no matter what you use though! The ultimate goal is to make your experiences pleasurable and not painful ☺️
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Aug 16 19
23:22
I think toys would be a lot of fun. Make Sure if you use toys they have a solid end for the outer part to stop it from entering all the way. I’ve worked in the ER and have seen people who come in because they have let the dildo slip. Always have a handle on things! (Pun)
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Aug 17 19
09:31
@VibeWlove haha perfect I will definitely keep that in mind, don’t fancy the embarrassment of heading to the hospital
 
Aug 17 19
09:32
@Moonbunny thanks you’ve honestly helped me so much
 
Aug 17 19
20:26
Definitely poop before and clean up the area, but if poop does get on the penis it’s not a big deal. There’s no such thing as too much lube when it comes to anal. If you guys decide to have regular sex either use a condom for anal and change it or remove it if you don’t use condoms for regular sex or you should tell your partner to wash his penis because bacteria from your anus and vagina are completely different and going back and forth can cause infections. Communication is very important and if it hurts don’t just try to force it. Go very slow. You need to arouse the area so you are relaxed. You can either start with using fingers until you get more comfortable with adding more or you can buy butt plugs. They sell butt plugs that come in small, medium and large and you basically slowly work your way up to the next size.
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Aug 17 19
20:56
@Pandafan1 wow that’s helped so so much thank you
 

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