for those of you in dom/sub relationships or just in general, whats your opinion on after care? ive always believed it was essential
Apr 14 16:36
Apr 14 16:42
I picked always essential. But in some cases, I do believe it depends on how intense your scene was together. It’s different with everyone really.
Apr 14 16:47
What is it? X
Apr 14 17:33
@tulipx_ when in a bdsm situation, if theres harm, degredation or anything that can be hurtful involved, there should be(in my opinion) after care, which is decided between 2 people, can be cuddling, helping them shower, help cleaning and dressing any wounds ect.
Apr 14 17:35
@justpeachyy i guess its decided between the couple but maaan id be so angry if i was so vulnerable with someone and then they just left ( a friend of mine did this, she did some real intense (and harmful) stuff, and then just left)
Apr 14 17:51
Even with just a slap in the face my boyfriend knows to pull me in for a cuddle.
Apr 14 18:49
@rosiebug yah my ex was so into degradation nd after id tell him things i loved about him ect
Apr 14 20:45
For me it’s essential, it reconnects us in a gentle way, even if it’s only saying degrading things it’s important to say I love you etc after