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May 21
03:53
I just came out wearing the cutest lingerie set and my bf didn’t even say anything. He’s just like “ I wanna watch my show” and like I get it. He doesn’t always have to be in the mood or excited to see me in lingerie. But it just makes me feel unwanted and it’s already taking a lot of self confidence to put something like this on. And idk it just made me sad:( it just feels like he’s un attracted to me
 
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May 21
03:59
Aw man! This broke my heart! He doesn’t have to be in the mood , but he could have at least complimented you and acknowledged your effort. It takes a lot to walk out in lingerie (at least for me). A different but similar situation happened to me but I made sure to talk to him about why my feelings had gotten hurt.
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May 21
04:06
It’s totally acceptable to not be in the mood but he didn’t have to dismiss your efforts like that. He should have complimented the outfit and explained he was busy.
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May 21
05:50
I would talk to him about how it made you feel, I completely understand.
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May 21
07:27
You should talk to him about it
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May 21
08:14
Just because he said that doesnt mean you arent attractive you are beautiful and he was just busy I accidentally do that to my boyfriend it's a silly but human thing to do
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May 21
11:21
Thanks everyone!! I will talk to him about it:)
 
May 21
12:41
My ex did this on our one year and literally rolled over and went to sleep after he looked at me with a straight face.
 
May 22
01:00
I think you should communicate how you felt. But it would also be a good idea to additionally work on your confidence so you don’t need to have his approval to feel confident/wanted!
 

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