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Oct 14 18
02:12
Does anyone else want a child bad? Im obviously on bc and very young to be thinking about that but I’ve always had a feeling that I just want a daughter or son??? I feel like that would make my life better and it’s so WEIRD. I won’t actually act upon because getting pregnant is my worst fear still (confusing Ik) but I always have dreams of being pregnant and idk what any of that means.
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Oct 14 18
02:19
I am actually the opposite. I am thankful everyday (without exaggerating) that I don’t have any children and having children would ruin my happy life. I think some women feel like they were born to be mothers and being a mother would make them extremely happy so maybe that’s you 😊
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Oct 14 18
02:22
Don’t you think it’s selfish to bring a human into this world just because they’ll make your life better?
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Oct 14 18
02:28
@birdsnest I never said I was thinking about actually having a child. But I think a child should make your life better? I mean why else would someone want a child if they didn’t think it would bring happiness to them?
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Oct 14 18
03:09
@dentalstuden good question
 
Oct 14 18
05:06
yesss i can’t wait to have a family but i’m definitely waiting!!
 
Oct 14 18
05:09
@birdsnest I agree wanting a child because you think they’ll make you life better is selfish. But I can’t think of a reason for wanting a child that isn’t a selfish reason.
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Oct 14 18
15:36
Personally I see wanting to have a child as being selfless rather than selfish because you are devoting everything to that child and for the rest of your life you put their needs before your own.. to me it’s a beautiful thing but everyone has their own opinions and views on it 😊 i can’t wait to have my own little family 💕 some women want kids and some don’t, nothing wrong with either option !
 
Oct 14 18
17:54
@Dessie11xo that’s assuming you’re a good parent, unfortunately the reality is that not every parent thinks that way, or thinks at all
 
Oct 14 18
17:56
@dentalstuden having a child is so much more than the great emotions they can satisfy, it’s not what they do for us, but what we do for them
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Oct 14 18
17:57
@Jay101 some people bring children into this world in hopes they’ll raise people who make the world a better place, that’s pretty selfless. More so if they adopt existing kids 🙌
 
Oct 14 18
18:07
@birdsnest if I wanted to go in deep about motherhood and having a child I would have. All I meant was that I feel like my purpose is to have a child and wanted to know if anyone felt that at a young age as well (: I’m not romanticizing motherhood or thinking it’s just all happy and fun times. I just feel like I would feel complete with having a child and raising them to be a good person and to better the world whether by actually conceiving or adopting.
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