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Mar 13
13:17
I've been talking for this one guy for two weeks now, we met last week, and gonna go for another date this weekend. He is a very good looking guy, and I'm a typical asian girl. Like I don't wear make up as much, and my dressing is mostly what I'm comfortable with. He has like a good body because he works out and I'm overweight. Is it wrong that I feel like it's impossible that this guy is liking me at all? Last time, he travelled 4 hours back then forth. He paid most of the food and drinks. Like I just think, he wants to be with me because of sex.. i mean he could easily get it from the city he's from so I dunno why he's wasting money coming here. He said well it's better to have a secured sex than just having it with someone in the city. We talk every day, he calls me every night. I dunno, I think I really have issues with my self esteem. It's either that, or he actually has someone else to pass his time with at the city as well. Help😭
 
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Mar 13
13:19
If he likes you then he does, I don’t see how his looks have anything to do with that.
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Mar 13
13:30
I think you’re just overthinking this. Just because he is a good looking guy doesn’t mean that he can’t like you? It’s not all about looks and physical appearances, personality and having a connection with someone are far more important. Definitely try to work your insecurities and self esteem issues, as it could cause problems with this guy or other relationships in the future.
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Mar 13
14:45
What’s a typical asian girl? I would try to stop second-guessing yourself and take his actions at face value. Of course, if you’re not exclusive it is totally possible that he’s also seeing other people, but talking every day seems to indicate he is interested.
 
Mar 13
14:46
I think you should talk to him. Ask him what he likes about you, and he’ll comfort you and show you that he really likes you. And it seems like you are getting very invested in him, if you’re just having sex, I would make sure that you want the same things before catching feelings. I think him breaking it off with you would hit you hard.
 
Mar 13
15:14
It seems like he’s really invested in you. Calls you every day, drives long distances to see you, pays for everything. Tbh I’ve never had that before. I would work on your self esteem with a therapist
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Mar 13
15:18
What @bluerose9 said, don’t let your insecurities into the relationship and ruin it! He’s seeing you for a reason x
 
Mar 13
19:19
Hun, work on your self-confidence. You're overthinking this a lot, he's coming out to see you for a reason.
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Mar 13
20:43
What’s a typical Asian girl....
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