** not related to me but a friend ** How do you feel about a boyfriend telling you he doesnt want you to talk to your exes or want them on your social media but he talks to his? Like not carrying on convos over text but has them on social media, they come around bc they’re friends with the same people, stuff like that. She doesn’t mind that he doesnt want her talking to her exes she understands she just doesnt like that hes able to do what hes saying she shouldnt

That sounds hypocritical and controlling. It’s generally difficult, but exes can be friends and if he carries on friendly relationships with his exes then he should understand her doing the same.

They’re both controlling.

She isn’t mad that he has them on his social media in a way of like insecure or jealous or anything she doesnt care but more like why does he complains about her when he does it.

if that made sense