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Feb 9
17:48
There is a guy I’ve been fooling around with. He messaged me after a few weeks and asked if I ever have a free house and I told him that I don’t. I said we could meet at a movie theatre (kind of my way of asking him out) and he replied “I’ll see”. And then the week after he asked if I was home (probably because he was home alone) and he asked the week after that too. Both times I said no. Was me asking to go to see a film a clear indication that I wanted to go out? I mean did he misunderstand and think I’m still wanting to randomly hook up?
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Feb 9
17:52
Tell him straight up that you want something more than hooking up if that’s what you want. Then there’s no misunderstanding and no wasting your time if that’s not his intentions. You can move on if he doesn’t want the same and in the end help yourself from getting hurt. Just communicate with him
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Feb 9
17:58
Sounds like he’s only interested in sex
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Feb 9
18:11
^
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Feb 9
18:12
It doesn’t sound like he’s interested in dating seriously or having a relationship. Have a conversation with him and ask him if he wants something serious or not.
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Feb 9
18:17
I think your suggestion was too vague. You don’t even have to go to the extreme and ask him “do you want to be in a relationship”. You’re just hooking up, and I think you should date first before asking questions like that. Just ask him out. Like find out when he’s free and then ask “ do you want to go see a movie this weekend, or do you want to go to dinner or have coffee”. And if he makes up an excuse then you know he’s not that into you. But I would just like to let you know that you may not be the only one he’s hooking up with. So I would not put all my hopes onto this but it’s worth a try.
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Feb 9
18:49
@lumiere that’s what I did- I asked him if he wanted see a film sometime and he replied with “I’ll see” and never asked me about it or mentioned it again. Once he asked if I would wear a specific dress the next time we hooked up (he saw a pic of it on social media). I said no because it’s an evening dress for going out in. He said that what about going on a “date” and then to a nice hotel. I said that a hotel is kinda naughty and he said that we could achieve a lot and he asked if I’d sleep with him and I said no, but I would spoon. He said what if I got too wet and he slipped in, to which I said no slipping no matter how wet. He never mentioned dinner/dress or hotel ever again.
 
Feb 9
18:50
@SamJ i completely agree with @katara_ he seems to be interested in sex only. If you’re looking for a serious relationship then I don’t think he’s the right guy.
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Feb 9
18:58
@SamJ ew. When you say you don’t want to have sex with him, it means you don’t want to have sex. What he’s describing about him “slipping in” sounds an awful lot like sexual assault to me.
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Feb 9
18:59
And I totally agree with @aurielle the way he’s talking is disgusting.
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Feb 9
19:01
Ew he’s gross and a waste of time
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Feb 9
19:19
Ew throw the whole man out
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Feb 9
19:51
Thank you gals! You confirmed what I was thinking - he’s just interested in sex/ fooling around. @aurielle I thought it was kind of sexual assault too what he was describing, and I don’t think he understands that. Kind of scary tbh
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Feb 9
23:45
His behaviour is disturbing..
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