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Mar 26 20
04:09
What do u guys think about this..... so I’ve been social distancing for 2 weeks now and so has my boyfriend, and we’re allowed to still hang out since were not seeing anyone else. And he works from home now, but he keeps like taking naps during the day which makes him have to work late into the night, meaning he can’t come over. All I want is for him to come watch a movie with me or something. But he hasn’t, he keeps f•cking up and not getting his sh•t done during the day. And I haven’t seen one single soul for like a week straight and he knows how hard it is on me. (Yes I do know everyone is doing this, yes I know it’s hard on everyone). But ... like it just doesn’t feel like he cares enough to make the effort to come and see me. Like why won’t he get his work done during the day so he can come and see me? He lives at home with his parents so he’s not completely alone all the time like me. It just doesn’t feel like he cares. I feel really alone. It’s just like in college when the exact same thing would happen that we would make plans to hang out but then he’d procrastinate on his homework so he’d have to do it at night and cancel on me. And I can’t say to skip the work and come and see me, bc the work is more important, but he could have done it during the day!!!! And instead he procrastinates to the point where he *cant* come and see me! It doesn’t feel like he cares enough to see me to get his work done first. It’s like really upsetting....... have u guys ever experienced something like this??? He says we keep having this same conversation but I’m like... so that means it keeps happening??? What is supposed to change??
 
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Mar 26 20
04:28
Why can’t you go to his?
 
Mar 26 20
04:32
@ilovepizza I soooooo would, but I’ve never really been to his house. I have my own apartment and he lives with his parents so he’s always come to my house. I’d even be down to drive out to him and just sit in my car outside his house but like the ball is totally in his court for hanging out unfortunately
 
Mar 26 20
06:57
Does he happen to smoke weed?
 
Mar 26 20
09:07
That doesn't seem like he care tbh just seem like he has a hard trouble focusing on what he needs to do when he is at home which alot of us are like that and having to deal with atm with all the lockdowns But if your that worried about seeing him you can also make the effort to go as i know it can be pretty exhausting always being the one who has to go to the other when they wanna hang out
 
Mar 26 20
10:25
I feel abit the same my bf is currently working from home to I not seen him for a week and can’t see him till next Tuesday but we been together 5 years so it’s different for us as we used to not seeing each other for a number of days at a time, but in a time like this I would love to be with him 24/7 as I am literally in my flat on my Own :(
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Mar 26 20
11:47
It sounds like he views coming to see you as an option instead of a commitment he’s made. If you’ve already explained that this bothers you I don’t think there’s much more that you can do, it lies on him to get his sh*t together and understand why it’s a problem.
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