If I’m not exclusive with someone and they break it off because they found someone new does that mean they didn’t like me/like this person more? The sole reason for breaking things off was because they found someone new, it wasn’t because they wanted to take a break, wanted to explore, didn’t think we were compatible etc.

It means that they for some reason was more interested in that person. They can still like you, but at this stage in life they wanted that other person. Just move on.

I would just appreciate that they’re being honest with you and broke it off when they could before you caught any further feelings. They may still like you, but they just found more in common with the other person or something. I’d respect that they told you instead of ghosting you and move on, someone better will come along

They only knew the other person for a few days. And he only told me because I suggested doing something on the weekend. I mean I appreciate the honesty but he doesn’t even really know the other person and he just dismissed me like that.

Yes it means he likes the other person more. No it isn’t a reflection on your self-worth.

If his attention changes that fast then onto another girl I wouldn’t want to date that person then anyways 🤷🏼‍♀️ you’ll find better

Probably just felt a stronger connection with the other person, which can easily happen with just one meeting🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t think he did wrong ‘dismissing’ you, he was nice about it and didn’t want to lead you on knowing he wasn’t interested. Move on x

If you weren't having a thing then I personally believe he did nothing wrong.

@xixv he 100% didn’t do anything wrong since we weren’t exclusive, I’m just questioning why he choose someone else over me when he didn’t know the other person well, they’d not even met. I sometimes date more than one guy at a time too.

Clearly something happened on his side. I don't exactly understand why you're pondering on it so much. It's best to move on.

Sometimes it just clicks with a person when you meet and you realise that you don’t have that with the other person so it’d be silly to carry on seeing them. Don’t dwell on it so much, you don’t need validation from a guy don’t let it make you insecure.