Does anyone find it hard to approach your partner for sex? My partner and I have such busy work lives, I do shift work, and he’s just started studying as well. And I feel like I don’t want to initiate sex because he says later, but doesn’t follow through. Any suggestions

I usually start by cuddling in bed and then go on with some kisses and it’ll bring him into the mood. Spooning also helps a lot with my boyfriend.

Maybe change things up a bit, suggests something new but initiate it by cuddling, kissing his neck, stomach and thighs, feeling him up; do this while watching a movie too that helps. Maybe he's bored of doing the same things?

We just don’t bother sometimes, it’s the way things are at the moment as we don’t live together and only see each other 1-2 nights a week🤷🏼‍♀️