TRIGGER WARNING Is there anyone on here that is always paranoid about having an std? It seems I am always struggling with it. None stop anxiety about having something after I’ve done something with someone.

Do you get tested before and after new partners?

^ regardless of paranoia, you and your partners should be tested before performing any sexual acts.

After a new partner because if I don’t I let my mind go crazy worrying I have something. My friend thinks it’s weird I worry so much about having one every time.

If your friend is making you feel bad about it I would suggest not talking to them about this anymore.

Assuming you use condoms?