I was hu with this guy and kinda caught feelings but this was strictly just a hu thing and that’s it. he would tell me about other girls ect. he told me about this one girl that he liked but after finding her personality he completely lost feelings and didn’t want anything to do with her. last night i found out that she was over at his house. it made me very upset but i never said anything. he gives me so many mixed signals he calls me his and brags to his friends about me but doesn’t want a relationship because of our age gap. What do i do

@egd100 he doesnt want a relationship because of the age gap but the age gap doesnt seem a problem to him while hu with u? Stay far from him imo. Don’t hu with him again or meet up because that might make u more attached and catch more feelings:)

@egd100 can i ask what the age gap is

@SloppyMcflop the age gap is 2 years

@SloppyMcflop Yes I agree with you he said it’s not weird to hu with a age gap but dating with a age gap is which makes no sense

It sounds like you both want different things and if you continue this situation you will only end up being more hurt

If he expressed that he does not want a relationship and your feelings are stronger than just a hook up it’s best to part ways before you get hurt even more

He’s allowed to do what he wants. You’ve caught feelings now and it’s going to be very hard to separate that jealousy and what you feel towards him when he has another girl around. You want a relationship and he doesn’t, so it’s best to part ways like everyone else has been saying.

Thank you for all the advice you guys are all correct! ❤️❤️

I’ve been in this type of situation and wish I had left sooner. I’m sorry you’re going through this, it’s tough when the other person doesn’t want a relationship but you deserve someone who wants the same thing. 🤍

Leaving is the way to move forward. Either he wants just you and respect you, or you find Someone who does. Moving forward will show you the way!