how do you get over a breakup? he cheated on me with several different women throughout our 1.5 relationship and i finally broke up with him, but i truly loved him and still do. i know hurt people hurt people and i just want some distractions and self care while i heal !!

Really just time. Allow yourself to feel your feelings and grant yourself grace and kindness. When I went through my breakup it was really difficult to get out of bed or even clean around my house so I tried my best to just be kind. If I got up from bed and went to the couch instead I was proud of myself. I would wash a couple dishes and be okay with that. You’re making a good decision for yourself even if it doesn’t feel like it right now. In hindsight with time you will see it as such and maybe your life will be at a much better place where you can be grateful you took your well-being into account and made it a priority.