Me and my boyfriend have had sex I’d say over 20 times, but everytime we start off we have to go really slow otherwise it’s pretty painful. We always do lots of foreplay but we don’t use lube because I naturally get really wet and it’s not different to lube. Any suggestions/ answers?
Apr 14 16:38
Also I have to start off slow but once it’s in it’s fine
Apr 14 16:48
I had also very much pain , and went to the doctor , it seemed I had an infection. I got medicine for it and now the pain stopped
Apr 14 16:48
If it really bothers you , you should ask your doctor
Apr 14 16:56
My bf and I have been together 18 months and live together most of the time so have sex regularly.
Every single time we do tonsss of foreplay and use lube even though usually I’m super wet and we ALWAYS have to start off slow like that. He’s quite big so that’s why I guess.
Honestly it doesn’t bother me, but I find having regular sex and doing a lot of foreplay helps.
Apr 14 17:13
@Needhelp3 no the actual sex isn’t painful at all it’s just at the start it feels like I need to be ‘stretched out’
Apr 14 17:14
@bluerose9 yeah that’s true, when we had sex the day after the next it went in much easier
Apr 14 18:04
This used to happen to me. But because my boyfriend was my first...I don’t know if it’s the same with you? We always had to start off slow too the first couple of months and it just helped a lot when he whispered in my ear to relax. A lot of the time I was too tensed up because I KNEW it was going to hurt. So if you try to relax your muscles/ not think about it that should help. OR let time takes its course because if it’s only painful in the beginning that will absolutely go away the more sex you have.
Apr 14 21:34
Maybe try lube coz you won’t need to go as slowly at the start if you use a ton of lube