I can’t stand my mother. So a little bit of backstory: she always believed in signs from idk heaven? She think that she can predict future. My guinea pig died today and of course she told me that she knew it and she told me that my guinea pig will die today. I really really don’t remember that but I get used to just ignoring stupid things that she says. Few minutes into her monologue about how big witch she is she told me that she thinks that I will get pregnant. I was pissed at this point because of that stupid talking + I have a lot of anxiety over falling pregnant. I started arguing with her and she said that “she only wants me to be careful”. I asked her if I am not considering I am using the most reliable birth control considering my age and where I live. She said that she doesn’t know because she doesn’t f*ck with me. Like really that’s what you should say to your 16 yo daughter.
May 14 19 15:38
I don’t know if your mom is mentally ill or if she is psychic. But either way, make sure you take your BC ON TIME just in case. And look out for vomiting and diarrhea. Read your pamphlet again.
May 14 19 15:53
It sounds like she just wanted to make sure you’re being careful with what you’re doing.
May 14 19 16:47
I don’t think she’s in the wrong really, sounds just like she’s spiritual and she’s checking you’re being careful, sounds like something any mom would say.
If you don’t agree with her belief thing then just ignore it kinda and just go along a little.
May 14 19 19:12
Definitely inappropriate to tell your daughter you think she’s going to get pregnant based on your “prediction.” Women need to trust their bc and not be worried about pregnancy. Not fair of her mom at all causing fear and anxiety.