So I’ve been talking to this guy hanging out . He’s 37 and I’m 24. I have my own place he doesn’t I just foundout he lives his mom to pay off debt and saving up money for a “house”.. I just figure it out why he never invites me over. Is that a deal break to you ladies? He ask if I want kids because he wants kids but he still lives with his parents... would you be able to date someone like that???

I understand if you're just out of college and trying to save up money by living with your parents or are temporarily searching for a job but no I would not date a 37 year old that isn't independent and lives with his parents

But tbh at 24 I wouldn't date any 37 year old

I personally wouldn’t

I wouldn’t date a 37 years old, and certainly not one that still lives with his parents

Hard pass for me, I don’t see what I would have in common with a 37 year old that’s two different stages of life

when i'm 24 i'll only have been working in my field for 1.5 years, if i'm employed directly after my internship. I might be in grad school and i will have dreams to travel or explore my own identity before i "settle down". I would hope that by 37 i wouldn't have much in common with that 24 yr old me. It's very possible that he sees you as naive, vulnerable, or weak and is taking advantage of that

I agree with the other commenters, it would be a hard pass for me unless it was super temporary, like maybe he just moved back home after living out of the area and was staying with family until he found a new place. But I also wouldn’t date a 37 year old. A 37 year old really shouldn’t have that much in common with a 24 year old. And if he does that would be a sign to me that he’s immature.