@Baileybee being insecure about pleasing a women is not a valid excuse to just not bother to please a woman at all. If he doesn’t know how to please a woman then he needs to actively work to change that, by asking questions, checking in with you, communicating, doing some research online, stopping in the middle of sex and asking you questions, making any kind of effort. Saying “I want to please you” isn’t good enough, he actually has to at least try to do that. You’ve been together over a year and nothing has happened, he still hasn’t learned how to please you - that mean he doesn’t really want to, he’s clearly not interested in making the effort. He’s spent over a year getting pleasured and not giving back. You’ve tried to communicate and he’s done nothing. Zero effort made. You’re still at square one, a whole year later. Not only that, he completely dismisses you and doesn’t think it’s a problem, which is a red flag. He probably just can’t be arsed to make the effort. That’s selfish AF.
It’s not the sexual pleasure aspect, it’s the fact that he’s clearly only thinking of himself. Is that a trait you want in a partner? I certainly don’t.
Does he do this or anything similar in any other aspect of your relationship?