POSTING FOR A FRIEND
my best friend and her boyfriend have been together for two years and they live together. This morning they had sex, but he asked to stop and when she asked what was wrong, he blew her off and said he was going to have a shower. He came back into the bedroom and could tell she was upset so he asks her about it and she said “the less you communicate with me the more I think I’m the problem” cause she internalised it and thought she was the problem. She told him that she thought that she was the problem and that’s why he stopped and he said “well that’s not my problem”. They had a little argument about it and that was it. But tonight, he told her that he finished himself off in the shower and she thought he did anyway, already.
Does she have the right to be upset?
I’m confused. I told her she does because that’s how she feels.