Hey y’all. So my boyfriend has expressed an interest in bringing people into the bedroom. He f is interested in same room play with another couple. No swapping or anything. I’ve been trying to stay open to the idea but it’s been making me very anxious. Im just curious if it’s that big of a deal or not since there’s technically no interaction with the other couple. How would y’all feel?

If you’re going to do it you have to actually be into it as well, don’t do anything you’re uncomfortable with. I’d maybe do some research and speak to him to learn more about it then decide if you’re comfortable or not x

I mean whether it's a big deal or not is completely up to you and how you feel. If you're not comfortable with it that's totally fine!

Definitely up to you; and how you feel….if you have second thoughts; best to work those out first before doing anything you’re unsure about.

If I had anxiety around the idea then I wouldn’t do it personally. You should be comfortable at all times in the bedroom especially when it involves other people. And especially when it’s something new to you. It’s an intimate and vulnerable moment. If you’re not comfortable, then it is a big deal. It matters. And you should only do it if you really want to. And are comfortable