How do I stop feeling like a crazy person?! I’ve been dating this guy for about 2 months now and we’ve been on 15 dates. It’s feeling more serious now and honestly I have never dated a guy where things are so perfect. He is amazing, we have fun together, awesome sex and he really likes me. I really like him too but I’ve begun to feel anxious whenever I don’t see him, I’m stressing for next week when I’ll be gone for 3 days and the thought of only seeing him once that week stresses me out. I don’t like how anxious I get when not being around him. I can hangout with him for 3 days straight, he drops me off and I get sad, can’t sleep and start giving myself crazy thoughts that he’s not interested in me anymore. I know it’s partly due to my previous ex about a year ago who was toxic and really hurt me, so my brain is set that this new guy will hurt me too. So I feel this inner stress that if I don’t see him enough he’ll get tired of me and ditch me. Honestly how can I stop with these crazy thoughts? I’ll lay awake until 1 at night stressing about him not wanting me anymore...like he literally took me out this week and planned dinner with me for tomorrow and I still think he doesn’t want me anymore because he’s slow at responding when texting? How do I stop having these crazy thoughts. This isn’t me.

Sounds like you need to work on your insecurities and on being ok with being alone. Spend more time with other people (friends/family) and spend more time alone - keep yourself busy (eg pick up a new hobby, pick up an old hobby, go to the gym, go for a walk, go the cinema etc etc). Don’t spend waste your life by revolving your entire life around him, whether you’re in his presence or not. If you think this is related to issues from your previous relationship maybe seeing a professional would be beneficial. Definitely try and work through these issues before you get into a serious relationship. It wouldn’t be fair on your partner if you didn’t.

Your world should never revolve around a man. You existed before him. There is no need to think he isn’t interested in you unless he tells you so. Try to enjoy this new relationship, you might be putting a strain on it with your anxiety. Like said above, try to seek some professional help. They can give you some copping methods.

I have a similar problem. Plus, he is a very social person who talks to a lot of girls. It gives me anxiety and keep overthinking and I fear that ge will lose interest in me eventually.

That’s down to insecurities @naatre It doesn’t matter how many female friends he has, if he’s with you, he’s with you.