On the contrary of wanting kids at different times or a partner not wanting them at all
I personally don’t want kids , I’m only 17 and things can obviously change, but although I’m romantic and believe I can be caring , I’ve never had much of a maternal instinct and none of it appeals to me.
If my partner was dead set on having kids , and saw that as his future , even though I’m young , I’d definitely have to consider where it’s going , and I wouldn’t want to run the chance of having kids later down the line for my partner only and not having my heart in such a big change in my life
Maybe I’m thinking to much into it as I’m young , but there’s that
Luckily neither of us want kids at the moment so I’m happy with that as is.