As I belong to the minority who doesn’t really enjoy oral, I have a question to all you that do: After he goes down on you, how do you handle kissing? Because for me, I love kissing during sex, but my taste in his mouth puts me off like nothing else. We’ve tried mints & water but it’s always bit of a hassle 🤷🏼‍♀️ Just interested to hear how it usually goes for ppl, as I am aware I am part of the minority. (Altough I’m not a fan of receiving oral, I want to keep trying to see if it’s possible for me to get off on it)

My ex and I would just kiss after he gave me head and it was absolutely no problem. Is there a specific reason why the thought of your taste in his mouth throws you off?

I mean after I get head ofc we kiss some more. The taste of my vagina doesn't bother me.

I love oral but the taste bothers me too. Eventually, he said I should get used to it because we both love kissing as well. Although the taste makes me feel weird, I try to ignore it!

The taste doesn’t bother me at all and never has, we just kiss like normal straight after. I nearly don’t even notice anything.

I am not into oral either but the taste doesn’t bother me at all. It’s just a vagina.

I hardly even notice any taste. But it wouldn’t bother me anyway.

We kiss as we normally would. I don’t really notice the taste and tbh it’s kind of a turn on when I do notice it

We kiss straight after! He loves it and I love it, such a turn on to be honest

I’m not into oral either! I don’t really feel anything 😂 but kissing after doesn’t bother me. I always kiss him after a bj hahah

I loooove oral and we always go to something else right after so we kiss intensely and Ive never noticed any particular taste.

Doesn’t bother me, I’ve had guys finger me then put their fingers in my mouth as a turn on thing and I never notice a taste

I don’t taste anything. My husband has a beard so it just gets wet but i usually just wipe my face after we kiss.

Wait how would it be fair to expect him to like oral but you're grossed out by your own taste?

Personally I love kissing after oral and tasting myself, I find it so hot

I don’t like oral much either but if he can kiss me after I suck his d*** then I can kiss him after he’s eaten me. I’ve tasted myself before and gotten accustomed to it. It’s a turn on for him

I don’t mind the taste tbh. I barely notice it when we kiss afterwards.

We kiss after I suck his 🍆 & we also kiss after we eats my 🐱 we both don’t mind

Yeah I kiss him after he goes down on me, I’m not going to stigmatise my own vagina? It’s not going to taste amazing and I know that. It tastes like vagina and I accept that.

I like it tbh

I’m literally begging him to spit in my mouth

@Mooooo HAHAHAHAH youre a whole mood ily

@aurielle I don’t expect him to like oral lol. He’s the one who’s begging to go down on me. He loves it even when I’m on my period haha. I love giving him head and we always kiss after that.

Idk, I always feel there’s something wrong with me, because 1. I hate my own taste in his mouth instead of finding it hot (i knew that’s a thing for lot of women and lot of your answers confirmed that) 2. Because I don’t enjoy receiving oral that much in the first place I know it’s ok to be different from others but somehow it bothers me to know that I can’t find pleasure from what everyone claims to be the key to orgasms etc. I’m probably just overthinkinh it 🤷🏼‍♀️ Thanks for all your replies girls

@flowergirl21 it’s not the thought, it’s the actual taste. Everytime we kiss after he went down on me, it’s a huge turn off because I just hate my own taste 😳

You could just have a glass of juice beside you?😊

@gimmetea you don't have to love the taste or find it arousing, we all have different turn-ons. But I do think that vagina tastes are normal just like a penis has a taste and it's a bit odd to be that put off by your own taste.

@aurielle Well, that’s what I thought too; I’m just weird.

I know lots of girls that don’t like their own taste @gimmetea, I don’t think you’re weird! It’s personally a turn on for me

Kissing after oral is not really a turn on or a turn off for me. It’s just 🤷🏼‍♀️. He kisses me after I go down on him and vice versa, it doesn’t bother either of us.

Perhaps ask him to take a drink of water or have something nearby he could wipe his mouth with? Also it’s ok to not be into oral and your bf shouldnt make you feel pressured to let him do it if you’re not into it. I’m not really into oral and my bf likes it but he’s fine not doing it anymore because he knows I don’t want it. If he begged me to do it knowing I didn’t want to I’d feel uncomfortable/guilted.

@Tiff10 Thank you. ”Begging” was a wrong word choice, sorry for that. He is very respectful about it, just like your bf sounds to be. Although I’m not super keen on it, I do enjoy knowing how much he loves it so every now and then we do it. I’m sure we’d have explored it more if I didn’t have an issue with the taste.

Maybe try doing it last/after sex instead of as foreplay? When you’d mostly be done kissing?

@Tiff10 That’s actually a very good idea! Thank you! I’ll surely wanna try that