So my boyfriend really struggles to communicate his feelings to me and it’s beginning to get on my nerves that it’s always me bringing up issues in the relationship and he just yells then says “I don’t understand what I’ve done but I’m sorry” because if we don’t talk stuff through we get moody and bitter and it just gets to where we don’t want to be around each other. This also negatively impacts my sex life, I.e. he’s tired from working 4 x 12 hour shifts a week and I’m stressed with a levels so we don’t really do it anymore and when we do...it’s fast, boring and quite transactional. Help me??