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Aug 12
02:41
So my boyfriend and I have been apart for the past 3 weeks and it’s probably been the hardest and toughest patch our relationship has ever been through... We’ve never been apart from each other this long and we just had the biggest argument we’ve ever had... like I feel myself pulling away and don’t get me wrong, I love him so much but I’ve just lost that connection we had. Would you guys say it’s because we aren’t having sex as regular as we use to or because of the distance or am I just growing tired of the relationship 😢
 
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Aug 12
02:47
I wouldn’t blame it specifically on any of those things. Having arguments can be normal to a certain extent in a relationship. Communication is key when being apart from each other
 
Aug 12
03:11
Three weeks is a very short amount of time for it to be hurting you this bad tbh. Take this as an opportunity to work out communication. You can’t depend on sex to have your relationship working smoothly
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Aug 12
03:14
^ agreed
 
Aug 12
03:17
Dont want to sound harsh but there are girls here who don’t see their bf many months at a time and they work out fine. Three weeks is not long time at all to not see your bf, maybe when he is back you should decrease the frequency you see each other because as some girls above said, maybe you rely on sex a lot to not face your issues ? and now that you can’t have sex they can’t stay hidden through sex
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Aug 12
07:47
You need to work on communication. My boyfriend and I went from living together and having sex 3-4 times a week to not seeing each other for 4 weeks+ at time and we’re staying long distance until at least January. The distance and lack of sex hasn’t changed anything in our relationship. With good communication and adjusting to being apart you should be able to work it out. I agree with the above comments, perhaps you’re too dependent on each other.
 
Aug 12
13:25
If this is the first time you’ve been apart this long, it’s normal for it to be strange and a bit rough, but that doesn’t mean your relationship is falling apart or anything or that you’re growing tired or lost the connection. It’s just a rough patch and with communication you guys will be fine.
 
Aug 12
13:33
Thank you so much
 

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