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Mar 24
05:07
i’ve been dating this boy for 3 years, we talked for 6 months before we started dating tho. we spent every. single. day together. we never wanted to be apart. but the past year we started arguing more and more. and these past two months we have fought everyday. i’ve tried breaking up with him because i hate fighting and i’ve been unhappy ever since the fighting started. we’ve tried and tried to fix ourselves but we always go back to the way things were. recently i broke up with him and he told me he didn’t have anyone to talk to about it because i was his only friend. his best friend for 3 years. and today he told me that i have made him so depressed here lately and i’m making him feel worthless. i love him so much but i’m not happy and i’m making him not happy. but he says i’m his happiness and if he doesn’t have me his life will be worse. any advice??
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Mar 24
05:12
also. he would never cheat on me and never has. he told me he loves me more than anything and he would do anything for me, and i truly believe that. he wants to get married and have kids in the next couple years. but i can’t have any friends, can’t go anywhere with anyone. i have to let him know every time i leave or get somewhere and he always accuses me of cheating and has to go thru my phone.
 
Mar 24
05:19
Okay two things: 1. You don’t owe anybody your time. You don’t have to be his girlfriend just because he’s lonely. He’s responsible for his friend group and instead of forcing you to stay in a miserable relationship, he should invest time on making friends. He shouldn’t guilt you into staying. Also he blaming you for cheating and forcing you to stay isolated is horrible and you should get out ASAP. 2. You have two accounts ?
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Mar 24
05:36
i feel so bad for doing this to him because i love him so much. and i don’t know if i could see him with anyone else. but i also want to be happy :(
 
Mar 24
05:53
Seeing your ex with someone else can be hard sometimes but you get used to it. A relationship should make you smile and look forward to talking to him/her. This person is making you miserable and bringing you down.
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Mar 24
06:32
This sounds like a super toxic relationship to me. Your boyfriend is controlling - please leave him immediately!!! You have no one but this guy and that’s absolutely horrible. Toxic people try to create a codependency so that you always stick to them and never even consider breaking up with them. Dump his ass and never look back.
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Mar 24
08:58
This is super toxic and unhealthy relationship, he’s very controlling and he’s suffocating you by making your life totally centred and dependent on him. Now he’s telling you that you make his life worse, he’s accusing you of cheating for no reason etc - disgusting. You deserve a million times better. Please break up with him for good and remove him from your life. Get him out of your life. It’s not your responsibility to be his crutch in life. What his life will be like when you leave him is not your responsibility, he’s made this life for himself by making you his only ‘friend’. How he reacts when you leave him is not your fault or your responsibility. He’s capable of making his decisions and you are not responsible for that. Please put your happiness and your safety first. This not a happy or healthy relationship and it’s not going to get any better, only worse.
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Mar 24
21:55
I know someone who was in the same situation as you, but she stayed in the relationship. They had a baby together and got a dog. He continued to manipulate her and continued to guilt her, to the point where he lied about their dog dying to force her to rush home early from a party. She feels trapped in the relationship, and things are extra complicated because they have a baby/dog together. Leave now while things are simple and straightforward. Trust me
 

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