Need some comfort. So as I’ve posted, my ex and I separated. It was really tough and I thought for sure we were getting married. Had an apartment together all of that. I have to live in the apartment for two months and he’s living at his parents. I don’t like living here for free. But one of our mutual friends told me how he was talking crap on me and called me a b**** when they were all together. He left the apartment completely trashed and when I got there I was really sad and started crying because I thought what we had was so good and he just left it a mess. Well I told our mutual friend and she told him it was really crappy of him and him and his guy friends were making jokes about it and thought it was funny. Then he said “fine I’ll just stop paying the bills” like why humiliate me? He was saying that my story isn’t right when I told everyone what happened and my side and I was like dude I’m trying to be civil with you I don’t understand why he’s being so angry

I wouldn’t waste your time talking to any of them anymore. He did a really sh**ty thing :( Do you have anyone you can stay with for a couple months ?

@Lemongrass_ but even if they’re my friends? I’m just hurt I don’t know what I did to make him be so angry

@Only_happy_ If they’re friends with him it’d be smart to distance yourself for your well-being.

I am so sorry this is happening to you. 💕

Unfortunately this is what others and I were worried about when you talked about moving into the apartment a while ago. Hurt people can say and do hurtful things. Even though you were on good terms when you guys came to this agreement, he now is clearly aware that he can use this agreement against you. Neither of you owe anything to each other (other than a bit of respect which he clearly doesn’t have for you 😒) but he now has power over you, and unfortunately he isn’t being nice about it. I’m so sorry you’re in this position. It’s so sh!tty that your friends are in the middle of it too. I have to agree with @Lemongrass_ if any of your mutual friends are siding with him, distance yourself from them. I would also refrain from talking about what he says and does with your mutual friends, I know you’re just trying to vent and get support but if they’re going to report back to him and continue with the “he says she says” Shiite then it’s causing more harm than good. Try to keep that stuff to friends and family who aren’t friends with them. Sending love ❤️

@bluerose9 thank you so much for this. I’m so hurt and feel embarrassed. I’m hoping to get out of here ASAP. I’m so sad and I don’t know what I did to make him so angry.