question for yall, have you ever been that drunk that you don’t remember having sex?? i was v drunk friday night and my boyfriend said we did but i literally don’t remember at all lol

If you were that drunk then you weren’t able to give consent. I would suggest having a conversation with your boyfriend about consent and about not having sex while either of you are intoxicated.

^agreed. I don't have sex while drunk because I'm not really comfortable with it nor in the mood, I would definitely talk to your boyfriend about what happened.

I have and now 4 years later, it’s actually something that disturbs me soooo sooo much. I feel ashamed, bad… and like the others wrote. Talk to your bf!! In my opinion….. if you were so drunk you don’t rembeber, I guess you couldn’t control your body to 100%, and if you can’t control your body to 100%, how can you give concent to 100%?? So, IF your bf said you’ve had sex, I would have a big serious conversation with him about it. Because even if you DID give consent before getting that drunk, he can’t just assume you would give 100% consent when that drunk. Sorry for my bad English, but I needed to write! You have my full support!!!!!!!!!