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Feb 12
Okay this may be a weird question but its something that i need to ask. What was your first time orgasming like? Ive always been really and i mean super close to orgasming (with a toy and just masturbating) but at like the last second i guess i freak out or something and it doesn’t happen. Its probably silly of me to ask but is it supposed to feel kind like I’m gonna pee? Something like that right?
Feb 12
I personally don’t feel like I’m going to pee when I’m about to orgasm, but it’s more of a building of feeling and tension that reaches its peak and then explodes in a way, and then there’s a relaxed feelings afterwards. I think I was 10 when I had my first orgasm and I honestly didn’t know what it was. I just kept rubbing my clit because it felt good and it just started to feel better and better until there was that release. I would suggest that you try and stay as relaxed as you can, and try to push yourself to that peak even if you start to freak out
Feb 12
Lots of people do feel like they’re going to pee when they orgasm (mostly when it’s vaginal) but if you’ve peed before then you’re fine just try to relax and give in to the feeling. For me I used to get a pee feeling and do if it’s vaginal, but with my clit it just feels like a build up then it’s super intense and I shake x
Feb 12
I’m the exact same way. I can’t get past it. Whether I’m masterbating or with my BF It feels honestly amazing and builds up like I’m almost there (toes start clenching, body starts to shake a bit, heavy breathing)...but then it just totally goes away vs getting more intense/having a release. I think a lot of it is mental putting pressure on yourself to “finally get there” and then you can’t and then you feel even more frustrated with it. I sometimes feel a bit alone/insecure for struggling with this, especially on forums where no one else seems to relate and can do it pretty easily masterbating and multiple times during sex, so definitely don’t be hard on yourself about it and feel weird or silly or anything for wanting advice or help. I really think it just takes some people longer figure out how to mentally be able to relax and give in to it and not think about it
Feb 12
My first orgasm was when I was like 10 and masturbating for the first time lol, I didn't even realize what was happening. It feels like a little explosion kind of, you will probably feel contractions in the area and then a feeling of relaxation and release. Like @awg1 I only feel the peeing sensation when being stimulated vaginally or squirting.
Feb 15
I tense up and it’s a good feeling coming up to the moment

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