I need some advice, for about a year I’ve not really been bothered about sex, I feel bad because my bf obviously feels sad and like he’s doing something wrong which he’s not, I don’t know what’s changed, if it’s the pill I’m on or what? sometimes it hurts also when it never used to before, I don’t know if I should go to a doctor because when reading online it’s normal, but I’m just a bit embarrassed really :(

the pill can cause you sex drive to change, you could change the pill your on? also he could either be hitting your cervix or you didn’t get enough foreplay so you could work on that to stop the pain x

Make sure u are fully relaxed before having sex as ur vagina will tighten up if u are stressed, is there enough foreplay before u try having sex with ur bf ?

@jxaa I have the same problem. My pill made my sex drive go down considerably and no matter how much foreplay I can never stay lubricated so we started using a water based lubricant and it works wonders

@nIKeyxo I don’t know if I can change it, I’ve been on it for years and had to change originally as it was giving me migraines :( there’s probably not enough foreplay but im not ever in the mood anymore :(

@lUnatone_ I struggle too! We have used lubes tho!

if you speak to your doctor you should be able to change it, there’s lots of brands x