But to be frank, if you were actually very cognizant/aware of the risk of pregnancy from having unprotected sex, you should not have done it. Being “in the spur of the moment” is not a great excuse. I think that rather than ignoring and resisting being responsible about pregnancy, you should try to learn from this. No one is condemning you (if that was the word you meant?) or saying anything bad about you. Just learn from this