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Jun 8
20:56
Hi everyone, I have been with my boyfriend for a couple of years now, we live together and also have the cutest puppy together (irrelevant but thought I’d add it in) Our relationship is great in so many ways, except for the fact that we virtually have no sex life anymore. It’s been around 8 months since he went funny around sex, just never making a move like he used to and rejecting me whenever I did. I have asked him about it a few times and he claims he’s just tired (although I don’t see how a person can be tired for 8 months straight) it’s really getting me down and I feel like he’s not attracted to me anymore and we’re maybe losing that spark (although it’s very much still there for me) just wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation or if you have a take on it? Thanks!
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Jun 8
21:01
sex drives fluctuate it’s completely normal in relationships!!
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Jun 8
21:02
Sex drives fluctuate, so he’s probably just had a low sex drive for a while and that’s ok. You can satisfy yourself when he’s not in the mood. You two have been together for a while so it’s normal in a long term relationship for sex to kind of die down a bit sometimes
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Jun 9
00:40
Personally 8 months is a very long time. How much longer is this supposed to last? I wouldn’t be happy in a relationship where I don’t sexual affection..
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Jun 9
01:02
Have you had a conversation with him about this? His sex drive may be low. But you can express your wants to him
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Jun 9
05:32
@ilovepizza you can’t control someones sex drive, they can’t force themselves to want to have sex
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Jun 9
12:29
@nikeyxo that’s why I said personally to me 8 months is a long time
 

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