hey y’all. so i need some advice. me and my boyfriend have been having this discussion for quite some time now. basically his ex girlfriend from a few years ago continues to want to me friends with him. apparently they’ve been hanging out as friends since they broke up. i’ve never met her in person and my boyfriend doesn’t exactly enjoy hanging out with her either, he only does it to not be a jerk and blow her off. he has been trying to ignore her these past couple of weeks and she started to notice and somehow she came up with the fact that it’s because of me. she said to my boyfriend that she would “talk to me”. let she sends me this whole text about how she sees my boyfriend as a friend and she doesn’t want me to feel threatened by her. and i don’t know maybe it’s just me but her using the language that she did just seemed rude and as if i was taking him away from her which i’m not. i’ve simply told him he wouldn’t like me hanging out with my ex so i clearly don’t like him hanging out with his. he agrees with me. are we in the wrong? like we’re so lost in this issue and there seems to be no solutions... any thoughts?