Hey guys so i need your help.
So i started having sex in october last year and the first time we tried it it didnt go in at all (lol). But the next morning we tried again and it went in that time but it hurt like a mofo. Since then every time we’ve had sex (which is not a lot probably a few times a month) its hurt, ive only finished like twice (and that’s bc my bf/i had to play with my clit during sex), and i dont really feel anything. In all honestly, i love my bf but i dont rly like having sex with him. Another thing is that he finishes quite quick, so i feel like i cant get into it bc my mind knows that it will probably end soon??? We’ve started using longer lasting condoms and that’s seemed to make sex a bit longer than before. I feel like i dont get pleasure from penetration either (clitoris stimulation all the way).
I dont know what to do, during foreplay i get really heated up and then when he goes in the pain just dissipates my feelings of pleasure and then i dont feel anything ugg i rly want to enjoy sex but i just dont.
How do i change this? Pls help!!!