I feel like I’m pregnant? People said I could just be bloated but I’m so nervous and my tummy feels different. I always believe I am in the percentage that bc fails. I take mine on time everyday and I’m still scared. 💊💊💊💊💊💊💊💊💊💤💤💤💤💤💤💤💊💊💊💊💊💊💊💊💊💊💊💊 Brand: Aviane

I think talking to a professional about your anxiety would be beneficial to you. Your anxiousness and concerns about pregnancy are not normal nor healthy.

Stop. People told you on all your other posts that you’re fine.

@a_marieee just curious bc my stomach feels a bit different and funny i dont know

@bluerose9 ok thank you

You’re trying to find any symptom you can. I promise you’ll be fine.

@a_marieee I guess you’re right

Look, please take a test and stop freaking yourself out, if you’re so convinced you’re pregnant then take a test and find out

@MadsL there’s no need for my to buy a test if everyone is telling me im not pregnant right

You’re right, there is no need, but clearly you don’t believe us so I think that you should see for yourself

@MadsL I believe you all and then I feel better and then I feeling something and I think oh no

@MK1117 if you start to feel anxious, reread all the responses on your other posts instead of making a whole new post.

@a_marieee okay thanks

I also felt in that way. Since I started taking the BC (5 months ago) my tummy started getting bigger and full of gas. I panicked two days ago because my doctor gave me some pills with Ipericum even if she knew I was on BC. Anyways I took a pregnancy tesy after 2 weeks of the unprotected sex and everything was fine so just relax

I'm litteraly like you, I freaked out every time I see something different in my body because a pregnancy would be a big deal for me and ai really don't want a baby rn but it's really unhealty

@kielbaski my tummy is getting bigger and full of gas too! I’m only 15 so pregnancy to me would be a big deal. The earliest I would want kids is 22. Since I’ll be finishing college at the age of 21. I want to be finished school and be able to just focus on a child. I do want kids just not now. I think I just freak bc I think about how I will be upsetting everyone. And I just don’t want this right now. I take my pills religiously so i dont know what else I can do. I’m just waiting 9 more days to see if I get my period on my breakweek. If I don’t I will freak and go take a pregnancy test right away.

If you have this much anxiety about being pregnant you should consider the fact that maybe you’re not ready to be having sex. Scarlet teen has a lot of helpful information that I think could benefit you. {5r4aZ02fv}

I didn’t realize you were only 15! That’s very young, so I understand why you would have so much anxiety over this. I’m glad you’ve made the decision to refrain from sex for awhile. I know you mentioned wanting your period so you’ll feel less stressed, which is valid. So I hope once that happens you’ll stick with your gut and not have sex until you’re ready to again. I’m saying this genuinely and not trying to be rude, but just remember that you have your entire life to have sex. You’ve already proven that you’re mature enough to use birth control and stay protected, but sex shouldn’t be something that causes you anxiety like this - it should be fun. Even if it feels good in the moment, or you want to please your boyfriend, there are other options. Don’t feel pressure to do it. Be comfortable with your birth control. Use condoms if you need to. Wait a while if you need to.

If you’re only 15 it’s understandable to have this much anxiety but then it just goes to show you’re too young to be having sex! In my opinion having sex means being able to cope with falling pregnant because it can happen... that’s what sex does... yes it’s good you’re on birth control but still.

@scrappy yes my bf completely understands and he said “it’s okay love I understand” I trusted my bc but I guess the side affects are throwing me off. I don’t feel the need to take a test until I get my period. Half of me feels like I’m not pregnant. But i dont know i just want to know. But taking a test or even getting on is a little difficult for me. If I miss my period I’m gunna have my bf take me for a test and then go from there. I really hope I’m not pregnant tho.

@Madi I should be okay with my bc tho right?

Ik 15 is young! Honestly you should see where I live. There’s 8th graders coming up to high school that are 14 and already have 6-8 bodies it’s crZy

Yes, you’ll be fine on your birth control. You’ve said you were a perfect user. But what @Madi and I are trying to say is you might not be mature enough for sex yet. Even after we’ve said all this, you are still questioning your birth control - so although you are using it, you might not be mentally prepared/mature for the responsibility and repercussions that come with sex. We think you’re still a bit young, so we hope that once you ease your mind you genuinely refrain from having sex.

@scrappy thank you for helping me and being so kind. It means a lot. I am going to refrain from sex and when I start again I’m not going to have it as much. Def going to ease my way back into it slowly just not right now. I just want my period now

Hey, I believe you 🤷🏻‍♀️. When I was in high school tons of people were getting pregnant. It’s just how it is. I’m glad you’re trying to educate yourself though. And good, I’m glad to help! I’m just worried that if you miss your period you might freak out even more. Don’t expect to get your period the day your break starts. Remember you have your entire break to bleed. And if you’re a perfect user, there’s still a chance you might miss your period or just get light spotting and that would all be normal.

@scrappy I’m def going to freak out if I miss my period. I have gotten it always on the 3-5 day everytime. Never the first day. I have also never missed it so I’m def going to be scared.

@scrappy I’m actually very young for my grade too I’m 15 and I’m going into 11th grade (junior year)

Although I’m sure everything will be fine, if that happens then you can just buy a test from the dollar store. It’s honestly not too difficult to get a test - you don’t need to go to the doctor for one.

@scrappy thing is I can’t drive. And I def don’t wanna tell my parents

This might sound stupid, but can you just like.. walk? Haha I dunno what kind of area you live in, but my friends and I used to just walk or bike everywhere when we were 15. Gotta do what you gotta do.

@scrappy no I have to cross a major highway

@Heshoney well actually I'm also because I just don't want a baby but I want to finish the university before (I'm almost 20). It's just we don't want to abort so that doesn't mean we can enjoy sex and whatever

I just think that, for me, i started BC just 5 months ago so I still have the anxiety from before but rn months after months I see that BC works actually good so I think she will also be fine in few months

At the beginning I was sooo scared that meaybe BC wouldn't work for me but hey here we are still childlessssss

@kielbaski I’ve been on it for almost 5months. I’m just really nervous