If both you and your partner were very busy throughout the week and you got to spend only an hour or so together throughout the week due to being so busy , would that bother you?
Nov 19 20:39
those circumstances would be frustrating for sure. but I guess you’d just have to remember that things will calm down eventually and you’ll be able to see each other a little more
Nov 19 20:43
@boi_ yeah that’s exactly my path of thinking. My best friend is so busy throughout the week and her partner ,in my opinion, is being so ungrateful and is moaning because he can only see her for a few hours... if anything he should at least be happy that he even gets to see her!
Nov 19 20:45
it wouldn’t bother me as i still get to see them. everyone is busy and seeing each other for a certain amount of time should not affect your relationship.
i couldn’t seen my boyfriend for around 6 months due to lockdown however i did come over for 5 mins (at a distance) to drop some things off and i was extremely grateful for that
Nov 19 20:49
My boyfriend works a super hectic schedule during the week, sometimes even goes in to the office on Saturdays. Its frustrating not being able to see him but we constantly talk about making time for each other and we work through it.
Nov 19 20:53
*not seeing each other for a certain amount of time should not affect your relationship^ sorry cant type lol
Nov 19 21:22
No. Obviously I’d like to see them more but you gotta accept that’s not possible and get on with it lol.
Nov 20 07:47
I learned to be okay with my boyfriend working a lot. Also he just started school and he wakes up really early to work out. He gets home and does homework. But all I do is support him. Yes I work and yes I am trying to work out with him in the morning. Also I make us breakfast while he showers to get ready for work. Also when he gets home and does homework I make food and I try to help him with his homework. But weekends he try’s to give me attention, but I rather have him finish his school work and actually get his things done. I’m not leaving him for being busy I’m happy for him and proud he is doing his best. I’m trying to go back to school now too. I think it’s not okay to not support your partner. That’s not a healthy relationship.