Is it me as to why guys don’t want to hang out with me? I feel like there’s always a reason for them to cancel on me or just not answer the day of 😔 I’ll be single forever

Sounds like they’re just the wrong guys for you.

You’ll find one that appreciates you and can’t get enough of you!! Just wait😌

Feels like that will never come 😭

@melloveschu_ it may not feel like now but the right person will come along and prove you wrong!! Try not to put yourself down girl the guys you’re talking about just clearly aren’t right for you x

You have to wait and look for the right person. People are too quick to pick just anyone because they show the slightest bit of interest. It’s OK to be single and look for the right person for YEARS and get to know someone.

I know that. But whenever I try to get to know someone, and we make plans to hang out, it never happens..

You're weeding out the weak ones from the herd

You won’t be single forever! Maybe the universe is trying to steer you into in the direction of self discovery. Don’t get down. Keep doing your thing, and simply say to yourself ....guess it wasn’t meant to be, rather have a mentality that it was a good thing rather than negative—keeping your options and mind open and on the right path. Change your thinking pattern. It will bring in more positivity, joy, and love.

Try to see if there’s a pattern with the guys you show interest in, are they similar to each other? Are you showing interest in guys that just aren’t on the same page as you? Do you maybe need more time to focus on yourself? I’ve been single literally my entire life, I met a guy who I completely fell for, he eventually broke my heart. I took a year to heal and I thought I would die single and unloved. But when I didn’t constantly stress over being single and just went on dates with the attitude “I’ll see where it goes, I’m just having fun”, that’s when I met the most amazing guy! 2 months in and I’m living the dream with him. What I’m saying with this is that you need to put away the pressure of wanting to find someone so badly. Accept that you are single, enjoy it and see the benefits of it. When you do date give guys you normally wouldn’t date a chance and just take one step at a time. Chances are that you are picking similar guys, that’s what I did. I gave the wildcard a chance, and here I am. Good luck, I know it’s hard!

This has happened to like 3 of my friends, it’s making me dread putting myself out there on dating apps because it happens so much! Guys should just not ask if they’re not interested, stop playing games with us 🙄

If they don’t want to hang out with you and ghost you the day of, then that’s their problem and nothing to do with you. Onto the next one 💃🏼